كيف تربّي طفلاً واثقاً من نفسه في عالم مليان مقارنات؟

كيف تربّي طفلاً واثقاً من نفسه في عالم مليان مقارنات؟

في عالم مليان صور وستوريز وجمل زي "شوفي ابن فلانة عامل إيه"...
طفلك بيكبر وهو بيتعلم يقيس نفسه بغيره.

وإحنا كأهل، أحياناً من غير ما نحسّ، بنساعد في ده.

في الحلقة دي من أصوات تنمو، هنتكلم بصراحة عن:
— إيه الفرق بين الثقة الحقيقية بالنفس والغرور
— ليه المقارنة بتأذي حتى لو جت من حب
— الكلمات اللي بتبني طفلك من جوّاه... واللي بتهدّه من غير ما تحسّي
— ازاي تتعاملي مع فشله من غير ما تنهاري وهو بيتألم
— وليه ثقتك إنتِ في نفسك بتنعكس عليه أكتر من أي كلام بتقوليه

مش محتاجة تكوني أم مثالية.
محتاجة تكوني حاضرة.

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Mahalashankida Ahayna Munhir Ost bin waftifnam mehisti nafsu, binunvatakabbarsh, awida, namishhaga, lemegi ulakmasalan anamal Thagahilwa. Ulha, ulmuskila innififer Igbir bin alur mutabin nafs. Il Mahur Bhikabbar Nafsu Batazhirinis, Lakinil Watakmin Nefsu, Bibni nafsu min reb Mayhtagi Dimhiru, Wudelfer il Mahtagini nifamu, kehl abimanali mululadna. In Abhat Feymin naftabitkulina, in the tuflibibni surto en nafsu binhilterat hagid asasi. Awulhag, et Tagorbti et Tagorbulibiesha, wimabi Gorba Bubbiamilhagab Nefsu, Hatalosuyero, Fabibda Ihistinhuandu Kudra. Thenih Hang Il Kalemili Bismaum Nimesilbi Hebba. Inti Kaum wa intakob, kalemek huwaqwa sut gu. Malfasal, ittuf the little minil com shnahitid dunya, dehaw Libikbar, huwawafakwinnifstu, kalium fidmerik lendinhanimralumtig. Finis bit ulli, yesameh il Mukorna Bambuda min zamen, mushhagagdid, nusah, bestififer Igbir, bin il Mukorna Zamen, Bul Mukarna Dilwati. 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Minit Mashar Litamantashar Sana, Dawatil Muraq, in Murak Bibda Yibni Hawidu, Infuluatida, Mra'il Shaw Bib Hemin Rawil Alf Hayed. Il Limhtegu Mini Msihha, Ehnak Albin Hebdin Masiha, Il Limhtegu in Ninti Bismaya Okta. Il Murahakid Haisis in the Ealubismawa minhir Mayakumali, Bib Andu, Sileh Duwe, Yikambi Dhuutil Kharge. Inti Lati Pibni assist, whu wabnifu. Intika om fakotikfinafsik bitanaki sali. Wutegbus illanar fanhuasam. Le innina bnit kelimanilwal e anuledna mfga il kalamu sollin, basikalina gunsalhamaki, la wintiqaum bitkarni naftik bum mahetanin, awbit hisin ninti mushkife, awdainab tkuman nafsik Bkus Bukosma tiflik bi shuvdah. Mishle innik umseye seye leennik insena wtitalini, ule atfal bi talim minili shayfinu aktor biktir minili bismaum. Tabi litemilih, hawul haige, tibdeit lahzi il kalemit dahilim ilibit ulili nafsik, ana feshla, anamish adra, anamrzaiit tanyin, is sewa fil umwa mishfil kamien, oba filhodur wulmahabula. Tani haige, and lilim lisocial media in libit hasisik in ninti nosla, el muhtawa libi hasisik daiman in ninti mishkifeh, mishlezim tukuni mehtagel, tani t hagga, itkallimima ibnikan masharik, bisha klimunesiblisimu, anakunti zalana mahuda, wa dibium mishlatif, damishdaf, datalim ilaina bnafsik mishananiye, ilhu ommel munhaga mbtarshitha, ul ummilimish bit shruf imita, mata dar sita limuleta, ishufu emithom, laufi haga wahdahdiam il haladi, ħalihan niktis mahil nafik innihte in nikmiti tahtemid nafsik, mishtahdir lek in darura. Social media w surta diflan naf, mishhatra kambil mil matkellim filma doda, u ledna diwa tibikbaruk fa alamrokomi, mfita hadijat kibira giddanan an suritum an nafsuhum. El khatar mishfil internet, ilhatar filwahdefi, theflik lawbi stahdi m social media milri maikunando, ay lako haiya maiki, dahu al hotar alhay. La inufwa t shak kif naftu, haile im kor not milre myre haddi saabwi fama. El muhathal meftuhama anni social media kime alhaye mishalhazr. Izatit kalimi malaya nisocial media, is ali bitteba eyala tiktuk, basti mhilma tahkumali lemechhuf haiga is ali hasid li, wa limi in nessala social media, bi tiro suramwayena kutlekindi Michalhailha, il libitallim libitalim suro, bikum bike wunan du wana ako viktier. La bitun shuri suwartiflek fisu el temhtageg tis alil nafsik. Intibtun shuri alashanti sherkilahzaiman, wala shanti nafzik al innes in ninti umikoyeza. Mefish igewa zahaqt basis su elmuhem. L'ntiflihisil imturtabitab sura al internet, bibda yibni sura nafsu mmutaw ka halara in nes. Khalini agemalik fahrihala, ashur Haget Amalim. Awalan wahed Khaligurrab wief shir, milmat the khali tulilwat, imdahil ghuhdi mushilati, umushustifati sebta, is alif hadat surayur, intahuz tekul eh noat fin, lemmet ulilula, ishrahiluli, uliu kusta fasal tifiha u adit, lamayamhag, uliu ihil Hasid bi lamamantida, batal anafahrabik, alimiullah, la mushmartahleheg, eqtay mukarmitu Bhiriru Hatalabuniya Hasan, Ihtemb nafsik u Khalli Shufik, kuni Hadra Budaham Mishik Hhalini Ahtin Bahaga Bahisi bi Hadaiman Wanabat Kalim Filmduhati, Tehnika Um Mahet, Bin Shiel Dakti Kibirgitan, Bin Hajwul Namin Kullahagasah, Bin Hafnirlot, Bin Kharin Nafsina Bhirna, Wahayanan Bin Hambil Nafsina, Masuliit Kulla Haga, Fahyat Taflila. Basil Hayah, Hay in Natuflik Mishmehtag um Makamla, Mehtag um Mahadra, Mehtag Hadi Shufu, Yismao, We said Dafi, Hadala Masadish Finafsikfil Asadi. Ifekabin nafs Mishidiya bin Adimhalauladnafim Wahit, Heyabidra, Binzra Hakulyum, Bikilma, Binadra, Biti Agambu, Wulbitradi, Lawazarait for Dinil Amen will hop, Hatikbar, Hatta Law Halamborra, Malian Mukornot, Shukranin Mintum Huntumayan Nord of Aswatan, Law Hala Adilam Sitkum, Law Had the Ora Ybinkum Mahtana, Shirkuha, Sukinabygbar, Lememnit Shirik, Wana Stanlas Mamin Kumfilkumente Awalastavha, Igumla Alhadkar Rabu to Ullohaltaflukumbukra, umatin soush, in kuliswut, yumkin and yanmu. Rehlitnafaswatan list of dayta, shirkulhal a marikum, untazumuna filatal kodem.